|HERE'S TO A FABULOUS NEW CHAPTER!|
Then tell me why only half of all Americans are engaging in the practice, when one out of every three Americans were engaging in 1960’s. A recently published MSNBC article stated that the constitution of holy matrimony was down to an all time low of 51%. I can’t say that I am shocked to hear this. What I am shocked about is why so many single women are still panicked about choosing this headache?
I am just kidding about the headaches of marriage, but lets face it… if you didn’t marry the RIGHT person, it could just be the biggest mistake you’ll ever make and truly a costly one to get out of. I understand that most woman want it, but if they understood what it is they are really giving up, just maybe we’d think twice before jumping that broom.
Single is EASY. Think about this for a minute. When was the last time you had to consult someone on a financial or lifestyle decision? If you really want that Michael Kors watch for $375, and your bank account says you can afford it, you don’t have to consult the hubby before you make that purchase…you just do it. If you desperately need that massage…schedule that appointment. There’s no need to ask for permission. Why complicate your life by adding a husband when single is so easy?
Engage in your passions… or discover new ones! You have such a unique opportunity to just do you! Our married counterparts are busy splitting their time between the demands of husband and family, only to have whatever time is left. And that’s provided they still have the energy. Singleness affords the opportunity to develop the best you, you can be. Why not take the time to develop or explore your spirituality. Buy that ticket to Paris and take that trip you’ve always wanted. Learn to speak French and take that class before your trip, or even better yet, take that French cooking class too. Build up those finances and make those investments you’ve been considering. Join that softball league in the community park near your home. The opportunities are bountiful and ripe for the picking. Just choose one and let the passion begin.
A Single Life is a Cheaper Life. “On a month-to-month basis, marriage just doesn't pay. At least not far beyond the honeymoon phase, after which the happy couple invariably decides to leverage its new status into better living quarters, nicer cars and more "mature" spending priorities like insurance and church donations, ” according to a Forbes.com article. The article goes on to mention that singles who make an effort to do financially prudent things such as buying homes and opening up retirement accounts early, wind up better off than their married counterparts. Once children enter the picture, married couples are really in financial trouble: The costs to raise and educate children are staggering.
Variety is the spice of life. Lets face it. Men do it all the time. If they can have a little “Black Book,” why can’t we have a little “Pink Book?” There’s no reason why you can’t have a movie friend, a sports event friend and a dinner friend too? How about a date for breakfast, another for lunch, and yet another for dinner and desert? There are plenty of fish in the sea. So go for it, but be safe. After all, WHY SHOULD MEN HAVE ALL THE FUN?
Freedom. Webster defines it as: liberty, autonomy, independence, lack of restrictions, sovereignty and free will . In my opinion, this is the best reason of all to embrace the single life. Even married folks will agree that not having to answer to anyone for anything…is a great thing. Doing what you want to do and when your wanting to do it allows you to life your life just as you choose. What a wonderful thing!
As we enter this fabulous new chapter called 2012, I challenge you to become the best you possible as you …
Embrace your independence!
Accept your autonomy!
Hold your head high and walk in your sovereignty!